Relationship expert, life coach, and social commentator, Solomon Buchi, recently took to the X-platform to share a surprising detail about himself before he got married.
He expressed that he had once gotten ghosted by a woman who he travelled 13 hours to go and see. He revealed that before he got married, he had been in long talking stages, where he even had to get gifts for the women that he spoke to.
He also expressed that he had given his all and made sure that they were all well taken care of. He revealed how the experiences that he had had with relationships had traumatised him from loving, and yet he chose to continue to love.
He also revealed his reason for sharing his story. He expressed that a lot of times, most women feel reluctant to do special things for the men that they love, because they feel that if they do it, the man will still cheat on them or not take them seriously.
But he expressed that if you love someone, there are certain things that you should be willing to do, regardless of the outcome.
Now, also recall that Kamei Filani had reported very recently that Solomon Buchi had slammed people who engaged in talking stages for longer than 3 months. He revealed that the longest time frame people should be in a talking stage should be 3 months, after 3 months, if you’re still in a talking stage with somebody, then you have to be a podcaster.
Also recall that Solomon Buchi had revealed some weeks back that he had told his wife that he was going to marry her a week after meeting her, and that barely a year after they started dating, he had gotten engaged to her. He stressed on the fact that a man who really knows that he wants to be with a woman will not waste her time.